Seduction, virility, romanticism...
WHERE ARE THE MEN?
Between the man on top who makes muffins for the nursery party and our nerdy friend who finds that we generalize when we approach the subject of violence against women, there is a whole male universe that Zaramodel wanted to analyze. The idea behind this: we move forward together towards the best, of course!
"Women have become so powerful that our independence is compromised even within our homes, that it is ridiculed..." Do you think these words written by Eric Zemmour after the Weinstein affair and the MeToo wave that followed ? Lost! The Quebec political science professor Francis Dupuis tells us that the service reactor who laid down these lines was Cato the Elder in 195 BC when the Roman women were mobilizing against a law prohibiting them from driving. tanks and wearing colorful clothes... The idea that society is suffering from a crisis of masculinity with men, poor victims of women, and looking for their place is as old as humanity. And to see the number of podcasts, of books or even reports devoted to virility in suffering, it would seem that the subject fascinates. At Zarmodel, we wanted to take stock. We, therefore, set out to meet men in order to understand where they were in terms of sexuality, would they be ready to have experiences with a Escort Girl!? Marriage, work, flirting, paternity... They confided in all these subjects with a touching honesty, sometimes disconcerting, often funny and comforting. We also interviewed masculinity experts, sociologist Christine Castelain-Meunier, who specializes in the study of masculinity, psychotherapist Véronique Kohn and child psychiatrist Aline Nativel Id Hammou. The three enlightened us on the relational upheavals that we are experiencing and explained what was going on under the “objective equality of the sexes”. And then we obviously surveyed women to understand the way they looked at their guys, their fathers, their friends, their sons, their bosses... With all due respect to Cato the Elder, reality, like rightly asserts Nabilla, is that "the minority experience is enriching, it elevates. Women today make up 54% of the world's population, it is now time for men to experiment with minority Escort-Girls...” For more equality!
Invested Paternity
The 2020 father has nothing to do with his archaic, hearing-impaired father with nighttime tears. Around us, the men all say more or less the same thing, they try to make up for what they lacked (most often a presence and words of love). The result is a new generation “mothered” by fathers who manage homework, heartache, know the names of boyfriends, and struggle in the park at -15°C. “The father has natural abilities to mother, to be an educational leader, to transmit and show his love if he is given this place. The “we” being the company, his family, his relatives, and his co-parenting partner”, explains Aline Nativel, the family specialist. So put away this dubious little pout, it's true that in terms of parenting, it's hard to delegate.